As Alice Cooper said…”no more mr. nice guy!”
So I’m single again and honestly I didn’t overly enjoy my temporary detour into coupledom. It came with too many expectations…like you want to talk to me everyday and you want to see me regularly! The fact that this felt like obligation instead of anticipation was my wakeup call. Yes, he was a nice guy and kind and respectful, but also boring and needy and lacking in spice.
I felt bad for breaking up with him, but only for a minute and then I felt freedom. Freedom for me and freedom for him to find someone who would appreciate the man he is, not wish him to be someone else. I’m sure he would have tried to be whoever I wished, but that’s not fair to either of us.
Now back to online dating to sort through the scammers, players, friends with benefits and the nice, boring guys to see if my second soulmate is somewhere in the mix.
untetheredheart 